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Welcome to our essential daily blog series on college recruitment! Whether you're just beginning your journey or are already deep into the process, this series is designed with you in mind. We'll delve into crucial topics like crafting an impressive highlight video, developing a strategic college list, and mastering the art of securing scholarships. Regardless of where you stand, our series is filled with essential tips and guidance to propel you towards success. Join us every day as we equip you with the insights and tools necessary to confidently navigate the recruitment landscape.
The Two Questions You’re Not Asking College Coaches (But Should Be!)
Helping Athletes Achieve Their Dreams for as little $89 a Month!

The Importance of Discussing Money and Academics Early in the Recruiting Process!

True Story:
A recent client of mine faced a tough situation: they were given just 24 hours to decide whether to commit to a top Division III school. As the 4 PM deadline approached, the player asked the coach for more time to understand the financial commitment. The coach’s response? “You should have brought this up earlier in the process. It’s too late to discuss it now!”
Here’s the kicker: the school costs $320,000 for four years—with zero athletic scholarships available. Imagine the shock of realizing this so late in the process. Unfortunately, this isn’t an isolated incident. Stories like this highlight why addressing finances early in the recruiting journey is critical. Waiting too long can lead to unnecessary stress, wasted time, and shattered dreams.
Money Matters
Finances are a major factor in choosing a college, and it’s essential to have these conversations early. If a coach hasn’t brought up the cost of attendance, it’s up to the recruit or their parents to initiate the discussion.
Understand tuition, scholarships, and financial aid options upfront to avoid surprises later.
Parents should take an active role in this part of the process to ensure clarity and avoid last-minute panic.
Academics Are Key
Academic requirements can also become a roadblock if not addressed early. There are countless stories of players being recruited for months, only to find out at the last minute that their transcripts don’t meet the school’s standards.
Younger or less experienced coaches may avoid these tougher conversations, focusing instead on easy topics such as team culture or perks like gear.
Grades and eligibility are just as important as athletic ability when it comes to securing a spot on a college team.
Take Control of the Process
If finances or academics haven’t been discussed, don’t wait—bring them up proactively. These conversations may feel uncomfortable, but they’re essential for making informed decisions about your future.
By addressing these topics early, you’ll save time, reduce stress, and ensure you’re making the best choice for your academic, athletic, and financial future.
Bottom Line: Don’t let avoidable surprises derail your recruiting journey. Take charge, ask the tough questions, and set yourself up for success!

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Receive valuable feedback to improve your chances of recruitment.
What You Get:
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Save time and money by avoiding the wrong, expensive clinics.
Benefits:
Maximize your exposure to the right coaches.
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What You Get:
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Stand out from other athletes in the recruiting process.
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8. Email Check-Ins
What You Get:
Bi-weekly email check-ins every other Friday.
Unlimited email support to answer any and all questions.
Benefits:
Stay on track with your recruiting journey.
Get quick answers and guidance whenever you need it.
What You Get:
Three newsletters per week with tips and advice on navigating the recruiting world.
Benefits:
Stay informed about the latest recruiting trends and strategies.
Gain valuable insights to improve your chances of success.
10. Monthly Zoom Call (Additional Fee)
What You Get:
A 45-minute to 1-hour Zoom call each month
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Structured Payment Plan
Our Freshman (2029) and Sophomore (2028) plan is just $89 per month, with the option for convenient direct debit. For information on our Junior plan, please email us at [email protected]
If you’re ready to get started, click this link, and we’ll kick off the process right away. Let’s work together to achieve your college soccer dreams!

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About: Steve Coxon College Soccer Network
Steve has 20 years of college-level experience, 17+ years in D1 as the Head Recruiter. He has facilitated more than $30 million in college scholarships.
Location - Connecticut, USA
