So You Want To Play College Soccer? - D1 or Bust: The "Real Numbers" of Landing on a D1 Roster!

Emailing College Coaches: Are They Still Interested?

January 11, 2026

Welcome to our essential weekly blog series on college recruitment! Whether you're just beginning your journey or are already deep into the process, this series is designed with you in mind. We'll delve into crucial topics like crafting an impressive highlight video, developing a strategic college list, and mastering the art of securing scholarships. Regardless of where you stand, our series is filled with essential tips and guidance to propel you towards success. Join us every week as we equip you with the insights and tools necessary to confidently navigate the recruitment landscape. 

In Today’s Edition

  • “D1 or Bust!” (2 Minute Video)

  • How to Email College Coaches! 

  • Girls' Connecticut Winter Showcase Opportunity!

  • Le Moyne College Breaking News!

⚽ - D1 or Bust: The "Real Numbers" of Landing on a D1 Roster!

🎥 Video 1: I put together quick 2-minute whiteboard video, "D1 or Bust!", where I break down the real stats behind making it to a D1 college soccer roster.

Hope it helps explain the math! If you enjoyed these videos, please subscribe to my YouTube channel and give it a thumbs up!

Have questions or ideas for future videos? Drop them in the comments section on YouTube—I’d love to hear from you.

Thanks for watching!

⚽  Emailing College Coaches: Are They Still Interested?

One of the most overlooked parts of the recruiting process isn’t talent — it’s communication.

Hearing “we’re no longer recruiting your position” is hard. But wondering if your emails were ever read? That’s harder.

Clear, honest communication matters. It gives athletes clarity. It saves time, energy, and emotion. It allows players to adjust, pivot, and keep moving forward with confidence instead of doubt. Recruiting is emotional. Silence creates anxiety. Honesty creates direction. To athletes:

Keep reaching out

Follow up professionally

Don’t take every “no” personally — it’s often about roster needs, not your ability

This process isn’t easy. But transparency makes it healthier. Trust the process. Communicate clearly. Keep going.

EXAMPLE EMAIL BELOW

Subject: Thank You + Quick Recruiting Question –

[Name], [Grad Year] [Position]

Dear Coach [Last Name], I hope you are doing well. My name is [Athlete Name], a [grad year] [position] from [high school/travel team].

I wanted to thank you for taking the time to watch me play / for your previous communication / for hosting such a great camp. I truly appreciate it. As I continue through the recruiting process, I wanted to respectfully ask where I currently stand with your program and if you are still recruiting my position in my class. I value honest feedback, as it helps me make informed decisions and stay focused on the right opportunities. I remain very interested in learning more about your program and appreciate your time and transparency. Thank you again for your consideration.

Best regards, [Athlete Name]

[Grad Year | Position]

[High School / Club Team]

[GPA | Test Scores if applicable]

[Link to highlight video or recruiting profile]

[Phone Number]

⚽ New Connecticut Showcase Opportunities For Girls This Winter!

I’ve teamed up with XG Sports to bring you an exclusive deal for their premier event in Connecticut this winter. As a reader of our newsletter, you can use the code SCN50 to get $50 off your registration!

Important!

If you’re registering for the event, please send me a quick email ([email protected]), and we can work together to invite more coaches from your ‘recruiting list.’ We’ll send coaches alerts that you’re playing and extend an invitation for them to attend.

This opportunity is open to all readers of this newsletter—don’t miss out!

📅 Event Details & Registration
👉 Register for The Event Here

Girls Event: February 7th

👩‍🎓 Girls Registered Coaches

  • NY/NJ Gotham FC (NWSL)

  • Providence College

  • Boston University

  • UCONN

  • Fordham

  • University of Rhode Island

  • Yale University

  • Fairfield University

  • University of New Hampshire

  • Quinnipiac University

  • CCSU

  • Le Moyne College

  • Southern New Hampshire

  • Southern Connecticut State University

  • Wesleyan University

  • Bay Path University

  • Smith College

  • West Conn

  • Mount Holyoke

  • Clarkson University

  • Elms College

  • Bard

  • Lesley University

  • Wellesley College

  • Dean College

  • Marywood University

  • Emmanuel College

  • Stevens Institute of Technology

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⚽ Le Moyne College Breaking News

Taylor Van Fleet announced as the new head coach @lemoynewsoc!

🔗 http://lemoynedolphins.com

Syracuse, N.Y. – Le Moyne College Assistant Vice President of Intercollegiate Athletics and Campus Recreation Phil Brown has announced the hiring of Taylor Van Fleet as the head coach of the women's soccer program.

Van Fleet comes to Le Moyne after four seasons as an assistant coach at Binghamton University. During her time in the Southern Tier, Van Fleet helped the Bearcats to three America East Conference regular season titles, including this season.


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About: Steve Coxon College Soccer Network

Steve has 20 years of college-level experience, 17+ years in D1 as the Head Recruiter. He has facilitated more than $30 million in college scholarships.

Location - Connecticut, USA