So You Want To Play College Soccer? - How Parents Can Navigate the Emotional Ups and Downs of College Recruiting!

Which D1 Schools Are Still Recruiting for 2026?

May 04, 2025

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Welcome to our essential daily blog series on college recruitment! Whether you're just beginning your journey or are already deep into the process, this series is designed with you in mind. We'll delve into crucial topics like crafting an impressive highlight video, developing a strategic college list, and mastering the art of securing scholarships. Regardless of where you stand, our series is filled with essential tips and guidance to propel you towards success. Join us every day as we equip you with the insights and tools necessary to confidently navigate the recruitment landscape. 

  • How Parents Can Navigate the Emotional Ups and Downs of College Recruiting!

  • Which D1 Schools Are Still Recruiting for 2026?

How Parents Can Navigate the Emotional Ups and Downs of College Recruiting!

It’s an emotional roller coaster—not just for athletes, but for parents too. Your role is crucial in helping your child stay grounded, motivated, and optimistic during this important chapter. Here are some ways you can make a meaningful impact:

Help Reframe Rejection

Remind them that rejection isn’t the end of the road; it’s redirection. Each “no” is an opportunity to learn and grow, bringing them closer to the right “yes.” Help them understand that even the most successful athletes faced setbacks along the way. Encourage persistence and share stories of resilience to inspire them. Explain that finding the right fit is about quality, not quantity.

Support Them Through the Silence

When emails or calls go unanswered, it can feel discouraging. Use this time to teach patience and perseverance. Coaches often juggle busy schedules, shifting priorities, and team needs that may not align immediately. Encourage your athlete to maintain consistent communication through updates, highlight videos, or personal messages. Show them how steady effort, even when it feels like progress is slow, can reveal their commitment and character. Remind them to stay focused on improving themselves rather than dwelling on silence.

Combat Self-Doubt

It’s natural for your child to question their abilities at times. Be their voice of reason when their inner critic gets too loud. Remind them of their successes—not just on the field or court, but in their work ethic, growth, and courage to dream big. Assure them that their worth isn’t tied to a quick response from a coach or a ranking on a list. Help them see setbacks as a chance to grow into the athlete they’re meant to be.

Focus on the Controllables

Guide them to channel energy into areas they can directly impact, like their skills, fitness, academics, and communication. Creating and sticking to a routine can help them stay in control when outside factors feel unpredictable. If they excel in their preparation, they’ll be ready to perform at their best when opportunities arise. Remind them that the recruiting process is just one part of their larger athletic and personal development.

Celebrate Their Unique Path

There’s no universal formula for success in recruiting. Encourage them to stay true to themselves and their unique goals instead of trying to follow someone else’s timeline. Celebrate victories big and small, whether it’s improvement in their stats, a great performance in a game, or a positive interaction with a coach. Knowing you’re proud of them, no matter where the process leads, can do wonders for their confidence.

Above all, stay positive, consistent, and understanding as they navigate this complex process. Your guidance, patience, and faith in their abilities will help them not only reach their goal but also grow into a resilient, empowered individual. With their hard work and your support, they’ll be ready to seize the opportunity that’s waiting just around the corner.

Which 25 D1 Schools Are Still Recruiting for 2026? Find Out Here!

If you’re a 2026 female soccer player aiming for a Division 1 roster, opportunities are still out there! Some programs are actively recruiting, but spots are filling up fast!

Check out this list of schools we believe are still recruiting. Schools highlighted in yellow have been confirmed this information.


May 4th - The Northeast 2026 verbal commitments have slowed to a trickle as most schools have either completed their rosters or are waiting on the transfer portal. Expect a flurry of transfer portal signings over the next few weeks, after which a few schools will continue to finalize their rosters.

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About: Steve Coxon College Soccer Network

Steve has 20 years of college-level experience, 17+ years in D1 as the Head Recruiter. He has facilitated more than $30 million in college scholarships.

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