So You Want To Play College Soccer? - Why Coaches Aren’t Calling: 8 Mistakes You Can Fix Today!

Dreaming of Playing College Soccer in the Northeast? Take our quick, two-minute questionnaire designed to simplify your search

March 09, 2025

In Today’s Edition

Welcome to our essential new blog series on college recruitment! Whether you're just beginning your journey or are already deep into the process, this series is designed with you in mind. We'll delve into crucial topics like crafting an impressive highlight video, developing a strategic college list, and mastering the art of securing scholarships. Regardless of where you stand, our series is filled with essential tips and guidance to propel you towards success. Join us every week as we equip you with the insights and tools necessary to confidently navigate the recruitment landscape. 

  • Why Coaches Aren’t Calling: 8 Mistakes You Can Fix Today!

  • Dreaming of Playing College Soccer in the Northeast? Take our quick, two-minute questionnaire designed to simplify your search.

  • Secure Your Spot at the Steve Coxon Soccer Network ID Clinics Powered by Adidas

Why Coaches Aren’t Calling: 8 Mistakes You Can Fix Today!

The college recruiting process is an exciting step toward turning your athletic dreams into reality. But sometimes, despite all your efforts, the phone doesn’t ring, and emails from coaches remain sparse. If you're wondering why your recruiting journey has stalled, it might be time to reflect on your approach. Are you showcasing your skills effectively? Are your efforts aligned with what college programs are looking for?

To help reset your recruiting plan, we’ve outlined 8 common mistakes student-athletes make that could be holding them back. More importantly, we’ll guide you on how to fix them and start attracting coach interest today!

1. Narrow School List

One of the most frequent missteps in the recruiting process is having too small or overly ambitious of a school list. Are you only focusing on Division I programs or your dream schools? Limiting yourself to just a handful of “reach” programs, while ignoring realistic options, can drastically reduce your opportunities.

Fix it: Research is your best friend. Identify colleges of all levels (Division I, II, III, NAIA, JUCO) where you could realistically compete based on your athletic and academic abilities. Use online recruiting platforms to gather insights into which schools are recruiting players in your position. A broader and more balanced school list increases your chances of finding a perfect match while expanding your opportunities.

2. Lack of Online Presence

College coaches scout talent online as much as they do on the field. If you don't have a strong, easily accessible online profile, you’re missing out on a critical way to get noticed. A hastily put-together social media profile or outdated highlight reel can do more harm than good.

Fix it: Create a professional online presence on platforms like YouTube. Your profile should include your stats, athletic achievements, academic highlights, and an up-to-date highlight video (more on that next). Keep your social media clean and focused, as coaches do check profiles for personality and maturity.

3. Poor Communication Skills

Are you waiting for coaches to find you instead of taking the lead? A passive approach can make you fade into the background, especially if your communication is unclear, unprofessional, or inconsistent.

Fix it: Work on your communication. Send professional emails to coaches introducing yourself, explaining your interest in their program, and why you’d be a great fit. Personalize each message by referencing the school’s team or academic programs to show genuine interest. Don’t forget to respond quickly to any replies and show gratitude for their time.

4. Inadequate Highlight Videos

First impressions matter, especially when it comes to your highlight video. Coaches don’t have time to sift through entire games or low-quality footage to gauge your talent. If your reel doesn’t show your skills quickly and effectively, it may end up being overlooked.

Fix it: Make your highlight video stand out. Start strong by featuring your best plays within the first 30 seconds. Keep the video concise (3–5 minutes) and tailor it to your position. For example, include key saves if you're a goalkeeper or quick footwork and passing skills as a midfielder. Always include your contact information and jersey number so coaches can identify you easily.

5. Not Attending Showcases or Camps

If you aren’t showing up where coaches are scouting, you’re making it harder for them to see you in action. Showcases, college ID clinics, and tournaments give you valuable face time with recruiters and allow you to demonstrate your talents in person.

Fix it: Do your homework and register for events where the schools on your list are likely to attend. Many programs post their staff’s camp attendance online, so align your schedule with theirs. Be sure to introduce yourself before or after the event, showing them you’re invested in joining their program.

6. Failing to Maintain Academic Standards

Athletics can only take you so far. Coaches want athletes who will contribute to their team, but also thrive academically. A low GPA, poor SAT/ACT scores, or a track record of struggling in school can raise red flags.

Fix it: Put academics at the forefront. Stay disciplined about meeting NCAA eligibility requirements and work with tutors or teachers to improve in any weak areas. Highlight any academic achievements in your recruiting profile, such as honors classes or standout grades, to show your all-around commitment.

7. Lack of Self-Promotion

Are you waiting for coaches to make the first move? If so, you could miss out on opportunities to get noticed. Recruiting is a crowded field, and those who are proactive usually have an edge.

Fix it: Take charge of your recruiting process. Send personalized highlight reels, follow up on conversations, and consistently update coaches about your progress and event participation. Networking through your club coach or athletic director can also help build connections at college programs. The squeaky wheel often gets the grease!

8. Ignoring Feedback

Feedback from coaches, trainers, and peers is invaluable for your growth as a player. If you're dismissing constructive criticism or failing to use it to improve, you’re missing a huge opportunity to reach your full potential.

Fix it: Always pay attention to feedback, even when it’s tough to hear. Reflect on areas you can improve, whether it’s fitness, tactical awareness, or leadership skills. Coaches value players who are coachable and willing to put in the extra effort to reach the next level.

The Road Ahead

Fixing these mistakes may take time and effort, but every step will bring you closer to your goal. College recruiting is about more than just talent; it’s about presenting yourself as the total package. Coaches are looking for athletes who can excel both on the field and in the classroom, communicate effectively, and show up with a winning attitude.

Take this opportunity to evaluate your current approach, adjust where needed, and tackle the recruiting process with renewed energy. The future is firmly in your hands. Start making the changes today, and you might just find college coaches calling sooner than you think.

Dreaming of Playing College Soccer in the Northeast?

Navigating the college soccer recruiting process can feel overwhelming, with so many schools to consider and limited resources. That’s why we’ve created a quick, two-minute questionnaire designed to simplify your search. It only takes a couple of minutes to complete, and within 24 to 48 hours, you’ll receive a personalized response highlighting Northeast programs that align perfectly with your soccer résumé and goals.

By completing the questionnaire, you’ll save time and money, avoid chasing the wrong schools, and focus on where you truly belong. Take control of your recruiting process today and start targeting schools that are the right fit for you. Don’t wait—Complete the 2-Minute Questionnaire Now and take a big step toward achieving your college soccer dreams!

Secure Your Spot at the Steve Coxon Soccer Network ID Clinics Powered by Adidas!

We’re thrilled to announce a unique chance to shine in front of college coaches.This spring, we’re hosting exclusive ID Clinics for both boys and girls at the brand-new Day Hill Dome in Windsor, CT. These clinics are the perfect chance to showcase your talent and elevate your game while connecting with top college coaches.

A Premier Showcase for Aspiring Players - Your opportunity to Shine and Get Noticed!

Whether you’re a male or female athlete, these clinics are designed to help you take a confident step toward your college soccer aspirations. We’ve invited college coaches from across New England and the Northeast, representing DI, DII, and DIII programs, making this an incredible opportunity to get noticed by the best in the game.

With only 50 player spots available per clinic, space is very limited. Don’t wait—secure your spot today and make the most of this exciting event!

Don’t Miss Out – Register Now

This is your chance to shine and take your skills to the next level. Slots are filling up fast, so don’t delay! Register today to lock in your place and ensure your spot at this high-profile event.

🔗 Boys (Only 29 spots remain)- Reserve your spot now!

🔗 Girls (Only 23 spots remain) - Reserve your spot now!

So You Want To Play College Soccer at St. John’s University?

Are you a high school athlete dreaming of playing collegiate soccer? St. John’s University Women’s Soccer staff invites you to join them at their One-Day ID Clinic on Sunday, March 23rd at Belson Stadium. This is your chance to take a step closer to your goals by learning from experienced college coaches and connecting with current players.

Here’s what to expect:

  • Personalized Coaching: Be trained directly by the St. John’s Women’s Soccer Staff.

  • Player Insights: Meet current team members and gain valuable advice on how to succeed both on and off the field in a college environment.

  • Competitive Atmosphere: Develop your skills while competing in a challenging yet supportive setting.

  • Discover St. John’s: Make your visit count by scheduling an admissions tour, walking around campus, and seeing firsthand why St. John's might be the perfect fit for you.

Details of the Clinic

  • Date: Sunday, March 23rd

  • Time: 11:30 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.

  • Who Can Attend: Girls in grades 9-12

  • Cost: $104.50 ($99 + $5.50 fee)

  • Participant Limit: 50 players

  • Location: Belson Stadium, St. John’s University (indoor facilities may be used in case of inclement weather)

What to Bring

  • Cleats and/or turf shoes

  • Sneakers

  • Notebook & pen

  • Water bottle

A certified trainer will be on-site, and water will be provided.

This clinic offers a unique opportunity to hone your game in a collegiate setting while gaining insights into the life of a student-athlete. With limited spaces available, don’t wait too long to grab your spot!

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About: Steve Coxon College Soccer Network

Steve has 20 years of college-level experience, 17+ years in D1 as the Head Recruiter. He has facilitated more than $30 million in college scholarships.

Location - Connecticut, USA